I am 31 yr old working mother, married for 7 yrs. My hubby says he loves me but he hardly cares for me.?

He is hardly bothered when i am not well, hasn'tot changed a bit even when he knows i am a die hard romantic. Doesn't even notice me when i am dressed well(and then when i go to work and get loads of compliments from my colleagues i miss his words more).He doesnt hv a friend circle, since he hardly talks to ppl, he hardly interacts with me too. I feel lonely sometimes and my son is the only saving grace in my life right now. I cant invite my friends families over since he doesnt interact much with them too. I miss a sense ohumourur, some laugh, some conversation with ppl. even when i chat with some friends online, he keeps checking what i am writing esp when i am chatting with a male friend. He doesn't like me meeting my male friends too, so i have never met them on one on one basis after my marriage. though I hv female friends and colleagues, they r too engrossed in their happy life, to go for a movie, or join a dance cl with me....i love life but hasnt enjoyed it for a long time. how do i make myself happier and how do i convince myself to accept my fate? I had a heart 2 heart conversation with my hubby saying what i like, etc but he hasnt changed, said this is how he is. Once when depressed, had spoken to a psychiatrist , he told me to focus on my hobbies and go for picnics etc. neither do i hv picnic groups nor can i just leave for picnics/hobbies, leaving my son behind. I need to find some peace and contentment with myself, Pls help. I hope i am not the only one with a difficult husband. Also is it wrong to meet ur male friend alone after marriage, just asking(not imp)?