Do you think this i very fair, Please answer?

I was stoned out of my mind one night, i have a Girlfriend. I wasnt with her that night but i was with 2 other girls. I really dont remembver it, But somehow it was videotaped that me and the 2 girls were gettin it on, It stared with oral and went all the way. My girlfriend dumped me, and is not talking to me, even when i said i wansnt in the right state of mind and was stoned as ***. Please tell me if you think its fair. Im still thinkin